Upcoming Events & Workshops
Couples Wound &
Relationships Workshop
Date: Sunday, 22 March 2026
Time: 10:00am – 2:30pm AEDT (doors open 9:50am)
Location: The Mill Hill Community Centre, 31-33 Spring Street, BondiJunction NSW 2022
Join me for a grounded, trauma-aware workshop where we turn toward the wounds that appear in couples and close relationships with clarity and respect. We gently explore the movements that shape how we choose, relate, and stay connected, creating space for what was missing between partners and strengthening what can truly support you now.
We all carry something in love from what came before us.
Sometimes it shows up as always choosing unavailable partners, repeating the same argument with different faces, feeling “too much” or “never enough” for the ones we love. Sometimes it looks like chasing intensity instead of steadiness, freezing when real closeness appears, or carrying hurts from past relationships into the present one.
In Family Constellations we view these as systemic movements, loyalties to former partners and to our families of origin that keep trying to complete something in love.
On Sunday, 22 March 2026, we gather in Bondi Junction, Sydney NSW for a focused, trauma-informed workshop to meet the couples & relationships wound: including what was broken, seeing who was missing, and inviting a clearer, kinder place for love between two adults. We work gently, with consent and pacing.
No blame, just dignity for every partner and every member of the family system, present and absent.
This Workshop Is For You If…
You repeat familiar patterns in love (pursuing/withdrawing, clinging/avoiding) and can’t quite shift them.
You carry unresolved pain from a past relationship or divorce that still colours your present.
You often feel “not chosen”, secondary, or in competition with an ex, a parent, or the children.
You long for partnership but feel blocked, numb, or scared when real intimacy comes close.
Arguments with your partner feel bigger than the situation—like you’re fighting on behalf of someone from long ago.
You sense you might be entangled with your parents’ relationship story (or that of earlier generations).
You want to witness or experience deep, soul-level work around love, sex, and commitment in community.
No prior experience needed. Adults only.
Two Ways to Join the Circle
Receive a personal constellation facilitated by Daniel Del Monte. With care and precision we explore your relationship field, past and present partners, hidden loyalties, and movements that can restore order and balance between “I” and “you”. Deep, personalised work within a held container.
Full Constellation Participant
Only 7 spots available!
Witness and/or represent in others’ constellations. Many people experience profound shifts simply by observing, feeling the field, and recognising their own love story reflected in another. A beautiful way to engage the work at a gentle pace.
Community Participant
Pricing:
Full Participant: $180 + Eventbrite fee
Community Participant: $90 + Eventbrite fee
What the Event Will Hold
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Grounding Meditation
We begin by settling the body and nervous system, opening a respectful field. You’ll be guided to connect with breath, the floor beneath you, and the support of those behind you whose stories of love and separation you may still be carrying.
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Mapping Hidden Loyalties in Love & Relationship
Through guided exercises we explore your relationship patterns: being the “strong one” or the “needy one”, taking sides with one parent against the other, carrying the place of an ex-partner, or unconsciously standing in for someone who was excluded. We make space for current and former partners, imagined partners, and the couple story of your parents. The aim is simple: everyone in their rightful place.
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Live Constellations
Full Participants receive personal constellations; Community Participants witness and may be invited to represent. Daniel facilitates with a steady, non-judgmental style, tracking movements that bring what was excluded back into the system. This can invite relief around jealousy, conflict, fear of commitment, sexual withdrawal, heartbreak, and the feeling of never quite “meeting” in the middle.
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Integration & Reflection
Time to digest. You’ll receive simple questions, journalling prompts, and shared reflections to help the experience land safely. We emphasise choice, pacing, and next steps if more support is needed.
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Closing Circle
We close with a soft meditation to thank the field, honour past and present partners, and bow to the love that flows through us from earlier generations.
Not Sure Which Format Is Right for You?
Choosing the right participation type can feel overwhelming, and that’s completely okay. I’m here to guide you gently and help you decide whether to join as a Full Participant or Community Participant.
Take a moment to reach out, and I’ll provide clarity so you can feel confident in your choice.