Upcoming Events & Workshops
Mother Wound
Date: Sunday, 31 May 2026
Time: 11:00am – 4:00pm AEDT (doors open 10:50am)
Location: The Mill Hill Community Centre, 31-33 Spring Street, BondiJunction NSW 2022
Join me for a grounded, trauma-aware workshop where we turn toward the wounds that live in the bond with mother with clarity and respect.
We gently explore the patterns that shape how we receive love, trust others, and allow life in, creating space for what may have been missing and strengthening what can truly support you now.
We all carry something from our mothers and the maternal line.
Sometimes it shows up as people pleasing, guilt, over giving, or difficulty receiving care. Sometimes it lives in anxiety, shame, numbness, body patterns, or the feeling of being “too much” or “not enough.” It may appear as merging with a parent, emotional distance, caretaking your mother, or repeating her burdens around love, food, rest, or self worth.
In Family Constellations we see these as systemic movements, loyalties to the mother line that reach for belonging and order.
On Sunday, 31 May, we gather at The Mill Community Centre, Bondi Junction for a focused, trauma-aware workshop to honour the mother line, include what was missing, and invite healthier inner resources: nourishment, permission to receive, soft strength, clear boundaries, and ease in the nervous system. We work gently, with consent and pacing.
No blame. Just dignity for every member of the family system, present and absent.
This Workshop Is For You If…
You felt unseen by mother/mother figure and work hard to earn love.
Receiving care is hard; giving is easy. Rest brings guilt.
Boundaries with mother (or other women/partners) feel confusing, too close or too far.
You became the emotional caretaker or “little adult.”
Anxiety, shame, or body/food struggles echo the maternal line.
You carry grief, anger, or numbness toward mother (including estranged or deceased) and want movement without blame.
You’re ready to include step/adoptive/chosen maternal figures and find your rightful place.
You want to witness or experience deep, soul-level work in community.
No prior experience needed. Adults only.
Two Ways to Join the Circle
Bring your mother wound and receive a personal constellation facilitated by Daniel Del Monte during the workshop. This is for those who feel they are carrying something unresolved with their mother, whether through hurt, absence, enmeshment, grief, or a deeper struggle in receiving life, love, and support. Your constellation will be explored in the group setting with care, clarity, and respect.
Full Constellation Participant
Only 7 spots available!
Join the workshop as part of the circle, without bringing your own issue for a full constellation. You will witness others’ constellations, take part in guided exercises, and may be invited to serve as a representative in the process. This role can be deeply meaningful, and often brings personal insight through observation and participation.
Community Participant
Pricing:
Full Participant: $180 + Eventbrite fee
Community Participant: $90 + Eventbrite fee
What the Event Will Hold
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Grounding Meditation
We begin by settling the body and nervous system, opening a respectful field. You’ll be guided to connect with your breath, the floor beneath you, and the support of those who came before you. This creates a steady place from which to gently approach the mother bond and what may still be asking to be seen.
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Mapping Hidden Loyalties in Love & Relationship
Through guided exercises we explore the deeper layers of the relationship with mother: unmet needs, entanglements, hidden loyalties, identification with her pain, or the ways we may have pulled away from life in response to early hurt. We also make space for what may belong to the women and mothers who came before her. The aim is simple: to see more clearly what has been carried and what may now be ready to soften.
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Live Constellations
Full Participants receive personal constellations; Community Participants witness and may be invited to represent. Daniel facilitates with a steady, non-judgmental presence, tracking movements that reveal what is unresolved in the mother bond and what may have been passed through generations. This can bring insight around grief, anger, distance, overgiving, difficulty receiving, and the deeper question of how fully life has been able to flow.
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Integration & Reflection
Time to digest. You’ll receive simple questions, journalling prompts, and shared reflections to help the experience land safely. We honour pacing, choice, and the importance of letting insight settle gently rather than forcing change.
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Closing Circle
We close with a soft meditation to honour the mothers, grandmothers, and the wider lineage. This is a space to acknowledge what has been seen, to bow to life as it came, and to make room for a quieter, more grounded relationship with yourself and with what follows.
Not Sure Which Format Is Right for You?
Choosing the right participation type can feel overwhelming, and that’s completely okay. I’m here to guide you gently and help you decide whether to join as a Full Participant or Community Participant.
Take a moment to reach out, and I’ll provide clarity so you can feel confident in your choice.